Thursday, January 28, 2010

Thanks To Family After Weddings For Their Support Two Family Weddings...are The Dates Too Close?

Two family weddings...are the dates too close? - thanks to family after weddings for their support

My friend and I promised 6 months ago and set the date for our marriage, literally the next day (2/2/08). Your sister has promised us a few months after her boyfriend a long term of 7 years. They had their wedding in July, but in Florida, said it might be too hot, plus the hurricane season, so he held a date 12/1/07. Only 2 months after ours, then close? I mean, in the 2 months it is not Thanksgiving, weddings, Christmas and our wedding. Important details ... My friend and his family to get married and live in Florida and Texas, my home country. They are planning a family from what everyone else has linked trips. I think it is very inconsiderate of them, but I do not want anything, because it's your wedding and you do not want to reduce your day. His family is less enthusiastic. I think they need support and advice. Thank you.

16 comments:

azn_butt... said...

It was bad, but it happens. People want more attention paid them, so they try to man. It happened to me and my husband had a partner who has been committed, which (according to us, we) were all friends of the way and set the wedding date 2 weeks ahead of us. It is irritating, but they wanted to do with us. You can talk about it and explain how the day is a bit tight, but if all you can do to be created. Congratulations though.

steffo said...

The close is cut. A lot of traveling in a family, because their radius of 2 months. U Have you thought about how to get married in Florida? just an idea.

Jamie said...

Two months is close, but apart my sister and I married 13 days. My uncle is currently in Afghanistan, just weeks after the wedding, so we had to choose to marry too close together or one of us had to wait 2 years before his return. We decided that we could run it and experience the marriage very close together.

The best advice I can give is to make each of your wedding. You totally different from each other. I have a traditional religious ceremony, and they are married outside of us. Make sure your special day for you!

Since the family is difficult, within 2 months of each other then maybe you could go get the message if they knew it was a gift enough. In this way, you do not have money for a flight and a gift.

Good luck and remember that this day is all about you, and not stress out!

Lydia said...

It depends on both parents and your children to speak. Do not say that somebody something about you, your BF can, if you feel well. When people have money and do not mind the trip, and since those days couples pay for their own marriage, not because it is a challenge for parents is nothing. Thank God, that era is over.
Then to go, and only with their own planning, and congratulations!

True Brit said...

Yes, I agree with you, and if I have to tell his mother anything.

J. K said...

I know what you by. My friend and I want to get married next month, and my uncle the following month. I think it will be okay, but my biggest fear is that my wedding, my grandmother was not able to reach your destination to take him for a day. I would say it depends really educated family react ...

J. K said...

I know what you by. My friend and I want to get married next month, and my uncle the following month. I think it will be okay, but my biggest fear is that my wedding, my grandmother was not able to reach your destination to take him for a day. I would say it depends really educated family react ...

Onique said...

Do not think the dates are very close. And I think that you should care about the wedding of his sister. Do you have for him and her. Especially since yours is in his home with his family, which is all he cares. And as difficult as you may not try to exaggeration and jealous or malicious fall over it. Do not 'to sell them in comparison or something like that. It is the lack of attention from them, in my opinion, the schedule shoudn't her life around him and his girlfriend. If this is the day they want, why can this be? Life is too short to worry about these things honey.

BarbKor said...

If the family of her friend feel less happy, what are they to your sister on this topic. You have had your first day, and is a good time to allow time for them during the important holiday destination and to celebrate them an opportunity to
Valentine path. I know you think it's too much in the family, but not in the married life with bad feelings between you and your sister and she is starting obliged to occur if you are the one who put the on the table.
Congratulations and enjoy planning your wedding.

IMOK said...

My brother and my wedding was 6 weeks, and all was well.

dpascoe8... said...

Sometimes this way. My children are about 8 years apart and married 6 months apart. Just send a backup of the early stage, so that everyone knows that marriage is both.

fro said...

Why, if people will spend it all about? Do not get to choose when others get married, and I am sure that nobody tells you decide what the date of the marriage. Why are you in this house. Not that it is not unusual that 2 weddings so close together. Just last year I went to 3 whole family wedding in 2 months apart. Nobody was scared because there is no reason for it. Chill out, before it essentially becomes a Bridezilla. Good luck for your upcoming wedding.

pami4198... said...

Our wedding date set for 6/10/06. After we announced our decision to marry appointment, my husband's brother too, and the date fixed by August 26.2006. I was very excited! Both weddings were pleasant, but many of the results outside the city that came to our wedding, not to be altered. I know Don very well learned. You do not know, but not really close it. Low Budget relax and concentrate on the day. I am sure that everything is perfect.

Im awesome & that pisses you off said...

because they chose the date on which you should not change. That a little tight, but I'm sure that people have to walk to both. do not worry. only planning your wedding and still have fun with him.

Im awesome & that pisses you off said...

because they chose the date on which you should not change. That a little tight, but I'm sure that people have to walk to both. do not worry. only planning your wedding and still have fun with him.

Im awesome & that pisses you off said...

because they chose the date on which you should not change. That a little tight, but I'm sure that people have to walk to both. do not worry. only planning your wedding and still have fun with him.

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